Before Medium, and that was just four month’s ago, I only shared the dark and scary stuff with close friends. One day I just clicked on “publish,” and I’ve been doing it ever since. But Gretchen, may I suggest that when you do, you say “F*** ’Em” instead of “heck”? Here’s my story about how I did it: https://medium.com/the-coffeelicious/my-facebook-friend-115462692ec3#.yen6fx7nu