I understand that you don’t hate the people that engage in these behaviors but hate the behavior itself. True? But how can you really believe swearing is as bad as lying and stealing? And homosexuality? Stealing is doing something harmful to another human being and so is lying. But not of these other “immoral behaviors” hurt others. Do onto others as you would have them do onto you. I believe that is the best way to live. No religion needed to follow that rule.